You are your words
I would like you to try this little experiment.Look in the mirror, or just while sitting behind your computer, say to yourself: “You really don’t know what you are doing, do you?” Repeat this to yourself long enough and I guarantee that you will feel miserable in no time at all.
Now if you did exactly the opposite: “I’m good at what I do, I have unique talents” or something similar, you will find that your entire mood will lift.
What this is basically about is how the language you use impacts on what you feel about yourself.
So often, when I work with my clients, I find that by changing their language, using positive words instead of the negatives. By re-phrasing problems as situations requiring solutions or simply by writing down what they are grateful for in that specific day, their entire mood changes.
When you feel good, you do good. A bit of a cliché I know, however, it is so true.
My challenge for you is to become aware of how you speak about yourself, to others and yourself. How do you describe what it is you want to achieve. Is everything so much work or going to cost so much money, or do you have a task breakdown with realistic time-lines and an accurate costing.
When your language is positive, your goals become achievable. When your language is negative your dreams become nothing more than mist before the sun.
You choose.